New horizons – thinking of moving abroad before Brexit?

Moving house is a daunting task. Moving house by yourself over the age of 55 to a foreign country is utterly terrifying. But also exhilarating and exciting, as Laura Lockington found out…

So many times I heard ‘Oh, you’re so brave!’ I didn’t feel brave, I felt desperate. After many decades of living in a Regency apartment on the seafront in Brighton where I watched the building decline but the mortgage rise, I felt I had no choice but to move.

After the usual hell of selling my apartment I ended up going for a weekend in Palma, Mallorca, with an old friend who had just bought a holiday apartment there. Palma is a sophisticated, cosmopolitan city and stunningly beautiful. But expensive. The area I loved was Santa Catalina (like Chelsea with its mews’ and cobbled streets but a whole lot warmer) but with Chelsea price tags, too.

The waiters served drinks in chilled glasses and baby squid was thrown on a grill. What’s not to love? I thought.

Then I went to stay with some old friends who had moved into a finca (a country house) in the north of the island. They took me to Arta, a working town slightly inland that had a high street lined with orange trees, a theatre, a beautiful church perched on the top of a hill and the cheapest bar in the world complete with wobbly tables in the town square. Narrow streets with shuttered old town houses with terracotta roof tiles basked in the sun. The waiters served drinks in chilled glasses and baby squid was thrown on a grill – what’s not to love? I thought.

The local estate agent proved to be a godsend. Susan Fernandez is a British woman who had married a Mallorqian man some twenty years ago, and she showed me around. She guided me through the process of buying property – the most alarming part was that after giving a deposit, you would lose it if you backed out! But it also transpired that if the buyers backed out you would be entitled to your deposit back plus 100% which calmed my ragged nerves somewhat.

I sat in the dilapidated courtyard the day that the deeds were signed and vowed that I would soon be picking a lemon from my tree for a G&T

I settled on a three bedroom property built round a courtyard that had a flowering lemon tree in the centre of it. Well, it would be three bedrooms eventually. Right now one was a defunct chicken coop. A builder was found (British, after many frustrating attempts with Spanish builders who were utterly charming but couldn’t understand what I wanted, which was to make two bedrooms with en-suites so that I could B&B them.)

I sat in the dilapidated courtyard the day that the deeds were signed with the local mayor (a very civilised affair with tiny cups of very strong coffee) and vowed that I would soon be picking a lemon from my tree for my first G&T in my very own slice of Mediterranean heaven. Three months later, the builder and his wife became close friends, and I cooked my first dinner for the new friends that I had made in Arta in my courtyard with slices of lemons straight from the tree in all of our glasses.

There have been highs and lows, of course, as with any major change of lifestyle. The lows have to be the truly heart-aching feeling of knowing that your friends are no longer just around the corner, and the struggle of asking for the simplest thing can reduce you to a gibbering fool. The highs certainly include swimming in the med every day and planning an outdoor drinks party weeks ahead knowing that it will be warm. Oh, and siestas. I’m now a devoted fan of them.

There are quite a few other Brits that have made the leap from the UK and Susan Fernandez told me that there was a big demand for houses from the Brits fleeing the mothership. Interestingly, a lot of them were in my situation – single, mortgage free, and disenchanted with living in the UK for a variety of reasons. At the time of writing, nobody really knows how Brexit will affect us, but one thing for sure, the price of wine and the sunshine helps take the worry away.

Moving to Spain Arta by Laura Lockington The Tonic www.thetonic.co.uk

Ten tips if you’re thinking of taking the plunge

  1. Be bold. It’s not as hard as you think it is. If you are disenchanted with the UK, give moving abroad some serious thought. If I can do it, so can you.

  2. Social media is your friend here, there will be a lot of groups who are based in your preferred area. Language exchanges, questions and answers, dog walking groups, you name it – you will find it.

  3. Open a bank account ASAP – it makes life a lot easier. You will need an NIE number to do this. Your lawyer will provide one. Use a site like Transferwise to move money around. It will save you a small fortune in bank charges

  4. Find a good, reputable local lawyer

  5. Be prepared to answer seemingly absurd questions on every legal form that you have to fill in. Bureaucracy is alive and well here in the Balearics and many other parts of the world

  6. Keep up to date about Brexit and how it might affect you

  7. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. From anyone that is around, the bank manager, the lawyer, the estate agent, the builder – they all know and they’ve all been in your position.

  8. Learn the language – even ordering a drink in the native language will help

  9. Become a resident of the country (I have an appointment in a month do that and have been told to take a sandwich with me as I may be some time in that queue). But it has great advantages including a 50% discount on all internal flights. Hola Barcelona!

  10. Smile at people. It might sound daft but a smile and a ‘good morning’ is the start of making new friends.

And for those of you who wonder whether it’s possible to make this work – Lemon Tree House is up and running in Arta, Mallorca! I have B’n’B guests all the time and it’s been a huge success. And as for looking back? Looking back at what?

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2 Comments

  1. We moved to France in 2005 but after 12 years have just returned to the UK. No regrets as we enjoyed our time there but eventually as we aged we felt the need to return home again.

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  2. Dave Brocklehurst January 3, 2018 at 12:07 pm

    Well done Laura, I almost mirror your situation, single (apart from my Dog Jess) fed up with life in U.K., wanted to spend my life in Spain, and went for it, drove from Leeds in January 2017, bought the house of my dreams and currently making it into ‘my house’
    It’s stressful at times, but with the right people around you it can be done, just make enquiries locally about the best solicitors, Conveyancers etc and go for it.
    Happy Days

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